Helping Nikki out….

Posted October 14, 2010 at 3:10 pm by

Nikki, with boyfriend Adam

After Gary Bowman’s motorcycle accident a couple of years ago, I got to know his daughter Nikki because she did so much to help with his recovery…seemed like she was always there, making things better for her dad. Now she needs a helping hand…here’s a note from Rosalie & Scott Webster:

More than likely, you know Yvonne Bowman. She works at the post office, selling stamps and giving away smiles. She is one of the most optimistic people I have ever met. You are possibly aware of the serious accident her husband Gary had almost two years ago. In the midst of his ongoing recovery and permanent disability, she maintains her positive outlook choosing to dwell on the progress not the prognosis.

You may not know that one of Yvonne’s daughters, Nikki, has cystic fibrosis. Nikki is 28 years old and she has a five-year-old son, Xander, who also has cystic fibrosis. Cystic fibrosis is an inherited, chronic disease that affects the lungs and digestive system. It is progressive and terminal. Nikki was just 18 months old when she was diagnosed. From that first day until now they have known that she would face diminishing lung capacity, chronic lung infections and ultimately, that CF would take her life. While none of us has a guarantee of tomorrow, their family has lived with the guarantee that the disease will progress. And it has.

Nikki

Nikki is an amazing young woman. Like her mother, she has faced this disease fully aware of the prognosis. She has chosen to focus on the beauty of each new day, realizing it is a gift to be cherished. Nikki has poured her heart, time and energy into raising Xander.

They live in Friday Harbor with Gary’s mother, Marian Bowman. Nikki has worked part time (when she could) to help pay the medical bills that have accumulated as her bouts with lung infections continued, resulting in hospitals stays. While Nikki does have insurance, it covers only a portion of the cost of the doctors, hospitalizations, and medicines.

In recent weeks her condition has dramatically deteriorated. She has been in the hospital for almost three weeks. She was on the regional lung transplant list but due to various conditions, has been removed. The family remains hopeful that she will recover enough to be placed back on the list.

There is nothing we can do to give Nikki, Xander and their family more time together. We can, however, give them some relief from the worry of the bills that have and will continue to accumulate. There are two ways you can donate. First, there is an account set up at Islander’s Bank for Nikki. Second, if you would like to make a tax-deductible donation, you can send your contribution to the following:

New Horizons Foundation
4570 Hilton Parkway
Suite 203
Colorado Springs, CO 80907

Note on the memo line: Nikki Fink Medical Fund

No donation is too small. Thank you for your consideration.

Sincerely,
Rosalie and Scott Webster

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3 comments:

3 comments...

  1. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

    Comment by Cruz jr. Family on October 16, 2010 at 12:30 pm
  2. Bless your hearts, I think you are the most wonderful family!! I will send a donation today. Know how much you are loved and I wish with all my heart for your recovery Nikki! Much love, Jaime Ellsworth

    Comment by Jaime Ellsworth on October 16, 2010 at 2:35 pm
  3. I have met Nikki a few times in high school and Knew her to be a very sweet and loving person. I do however know her family and Adam. They are all such wonderful people! It breaks my heart that they have to go through this. I regret that I am too far away to give my hugs and love but my prayers and thoughts are with all of you!

    Comment by Julie Calderwood (Geiser) on October 18, 2010 at 12:36 pm

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